Friday, January 29, 2010

What's Awesome Now? Alexis Bittar

Lately, I've become obsessed with the jewelry of Alexis Bittar. I love his style - it's so different. I wear a lot of dark, classic style clothes and Alexis Bittar's jewelry adds some color and fun to my outfits.

Last Christmas, my parents gave me these earrings which are amazing. They are so modern and fun. I love them.

Then, I bought these earrings on sale. They are more ornate than what I usually go for but they are a lot of fun. They brighten up some of my darker colored outfits.But Alexis Bittar makes other really cool stuff. Most of it I cannot afford like this necklace.
Or these earrings.

But, luckily his stuff does go on sale. I'll just have to keep my eye out.

All of his stuff is awesome. And what I love most about it is that the jewelry is so light! Usually more ornate earrings are really heavy and thus painful. But the material that Alexis Bittar uses is so lightweight that you barely realize you are wearing earrings. It's awesome.

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

New Bag



A couple of weeks ago, I broke down and bought a new work bag. It's the patent leather campo bag from J Crew. I'd been lusting over it for a long time but had managed to resist. However, when J Crew put the bag on sale and then offered me 20% off sale items and free shipping - I just couldn't resist.

Anyway, this bag is great. It holds all of my personal and work items without looking huge. I bought it in this dark grey color which is great for work (the picture is the purple version which was sold out). It will match anything in any season.

Anyway, I'm a big fan of this purchase.

Monday, January 25, 2010

National Guilt

I've been thinking a lot lately about the concept of national guilt. It's a subject that first became interesting to me when I read the book The Reader.

Unlike the movie version, the book The Reader focuses more on the post-WWII generation in Germany coming to terms with the actions of their parents' generation. It's an interesting phenomenon. How do you accept the shameful actions of your country's past? How do you have pride in a country that has done such awful things? But, if you have no national pride, what keeps the country and people together? Is national pride and therefore the denial of national guilt necessary for the advancement of a culture?

Recently, I read the book Sarah's Key. I found this book to be particularly interesting because it focused on a subject of which I knew nothing. That is the Vel d'Hiv round-up in Paris in July 1942. This round-up effectively sent thousands of Jews to their deaths. Jews that were forced from their homes, taken into custody, and sent to gas chambers by the French police - not the SS. It was the French imprisoning the French.

Of course, the round-up is a shocking and horrific action, and the part of the book that describes the events is particularly heartbreaking.

But, what I found to be fascinating in the book was the feelings of the witnesses. So many people witnessed these round-ups and did nothing to stop them. Realistically, they probably could not have stopped them, but no one even seemed to try. The people who lived near the Vel d'Hiv and knew that thousands of people were being held hostage in the building, did nothing. Sure, some people tried to sneak in some food but that was the extent of their assistance. From the description of the event in the book as well as research that I did after reading it, it seems like most French citizens turned away and pretended that they had no idea what was going on. They pretended not to know why apartments were suddenly vacant or why areas of the city - Jewish areas - were empty.

After the war, it seemed that the witnesses tried to forget these events. When forced to remember, they placed blame on others - namely the Germans - and not on themselves or their countrymen. In fact it took an entire half a century for the French government to recognize the part of its people in these actions. To accept blame. To acknowledge guilt.

It's true that all cultures have historic actions of which they are or should be ashamed. America is no different. You just have to look to the Trail of Tears, slavery, and the Iraq War for examples.

And I suppose that the only way to move beyond the knowledge that your country - or yourself - participated in such actions is to either forget the actions occurred or place the blame on others. Otherwise, how do you live with yourself?

If I was still in school, I think I would be moved to research and write on this topic. I may still do the research aspect as I truly find this phenomenon fascinating. It would be very interesting to look at parellels in Roman history, German history, French history, American history, Russian history, etc to see how powerful cultures that perform abhorrent actions manage to persevere. Do their people feel a sense of national guilt? How do they overcome it? Is regaining the sense of national pride integral to the future success of a nation?

I'm not sure that there are any clear cut answers but I do find the concept to be an intriguing one.

Sunday, January 24, 2010

100th Post!

I cannot believe that this is my 100th post! When I started this blog back in July, I did not think it would last more than a week or two. But, hitting this milestone is kind of cool.

In honor of it, I am sending myself virtual flowers.


And chocolates.And champagne.


Of course, feel free to send me real items in celebration. I won't turn them down. :)

Monday, January 11, 2010

2010

I cannot believe that we are already 2 weeks into 2010. That's just crazy to me. Time is flying by.

This year is already off to an interesting start. If anyone had told me at the start of 2009 what I would be doing at the start of 2010 - I would have thought that they were crazy. It's amazing how quickly life changes - for both the good and the bad although in my circumstances it's for the good at the moment.


2010 is bound to bring many surprises, but I have a good feeling about it. I've decided not to make any resolutions this year, but I have decided to set a goal. Some people may think that resolutions and goals are one in the same, but I disagree. I think a goal is something that you systematically work toward whereas a resolution is something that you just decide to do. And let's face it, resolutions are all too easy to break.


My goal for 2010 is to strive to have a better work/life balance. I will be the first to admit that I can put work in front of anything else. And while I do not plan to start slacking off at my job, I am going to work to shift my focus to a more equal balance between my personal and professional life. Who knows that could actually make me more efficient at work. We'll see!